Christian Growth
100 Iron Man Memory Verses
January/20/2023 07:55 PM
At CrossWinds, we love to hide God's Word in our hearts! Here are recommended memory verses for the iron man Scripture memory program.
Psalm 118:24 — This is the day that the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Psalm 119:11 — I have stored up your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.
Proverbs 15:1 — A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Matthew 6:33 — But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
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Psalm 118:24 — This is the day that the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Psalm 119:11 — I have stored up your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.
Proverbs 15:1 — A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Matthew 6:33 — But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
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How Do We Raise Our Children In A World Gone Woke?
January/13/2023 02:48 PM
Parenting in the modern world is hard. It requires a bigger house, a bigger car, and saving for a college education. Parents are a taxi service driving children to sports, band, and play practices. Everyone is looking for guidance on how to raise children well in our woke culture.
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Does God Want Us To Be Happy?
January/21/2022 02:50 PM
After Tom Brady won his third Superbowl, he was interviewed by Steve Kroft. An obviously unhappy Brady said, “Why do I have three Super Bowl rings, and still think there’s something greater out there for me? I think, ‘God, it’s gotta be more than this…’” In other words, even if you were as rich, famous, and successful as Tom Brady, that doesn’t mean you would be happy.
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What Does The Bible Say About Children Obeying Their Parents?
August/27/2021 12:33 PM
Children obeying their parents is a direct command from God. Ephesians 6:1 says, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.” In this verse, obeying one’s parents can not be separated from honoring one’s parents. Ephesians 6 continues, “Honor your father and mother — which is the first command with a promise — so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on earth.”
“Honor” means children are to have an attitude of respect toward their parents. A child’s obedience to their parents is to be done with an attitude of honor. Obedience with a bad attitude does not conform to the command.
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“Honor” means children are to have an attitude of respect toward their parents. A child’s obedience to their parents is to be done with an attitude of honor. Obedience with a bad attitude does not conform to the command.
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Don't Waste Your Loneliness
April/16/2021 01:35 PM
She gathered up the torn ribbons and ripped Christmas wrapping. The young mother carried the trash to the back alley. Their traditional Christmas morning was cut short when her three children said, “Hurry up, Mom! We have to be at Dad’s by 10:00 this morning.” At the beep of his horn, all three raced out the door to repeat the gift-giving scene with their father, his new wife, and her children. They would be there all day then leave on a trip for the holidays. Suddenly, both her house and her heart felt alone. In the quiet house, she sat by the fireplace allowing her tears to run free. In her loneliness, she cried out to God in her pain.
When was the last time you felt the pain of loneliness take a bite out of your heart? Let’s see what the Bible says about loneliness and where to find help in those painful times. Read More...
When was the last time you felt the pain of loneliness take a bite out of your heart? Let’s see what the Bible says about loneliness and where to find help in those painful times. Read More...
"Courageous" Movie Review
October/01/2011 10:28 AM
I will admit it. We are a movie junkie household. Deanna, my youngest, loves to watch television. If I let her, she would play videos until the DVD player broke. Cindy, my wife, loves watching movies. My family loves movies so much that last Christmas I caved into the family pressure and we bought them a big screen HD television. It is not just our family that enjoys a good movie but movies and television are a big part of our culture. There is one big problem with all this entertainment on the big screen. It is hard to find something edifying to watch.
Many families settle by watching the least offensive media.
My friends, your search for a good movie is over. Last night I took my family to see “Courageous,” the new movie by Alex and Stephen Kendrick. It was simply topnotch entertainment. Like a good movie should, it had us laughing, crying and on the edge of our seats all the way to the end. David, my high school sophomore, was surprised. He thought it would be boring. Instead, he loved it. It was filled with great action scenes, heroes and villains. He wants to get his friends together and bring them to see it tonight, less than 24 hours after seeing it the first time.
The Kendrick brothers are not just using film to entertain but, as solid Christians, the film has great spiritual value. To begin with, the gospel is clearly presented in a relevant way. Beyond the gospel, the film repeatedly applies the Bible to life. Such as how to overcome the loss of a child and how do I maintain my integrity when the pressure is pulling me to fall.
Beyond the cinematic and spiritual excellence, another aspect of the film I appreciated was its multi-cultural emphasis. The heroes of the film are White, Black and Hispanic. They come from the middle-class and the poor. This was a wise choice by the Kendrick brothers. A “white-boy” only film is not realistic to modern America and, I believe, it commits the sin of partiality and would minimize the films audience.
The main thrust of the film is a challenge for men to be the spiritual leaders of their homes and churches. It gives all men a serious, but necessary, kick-in-the-seat-of-the-pants from the first scene until the last. It was well done. Men won’t be offended but they will be challenged to excellence.
From my study of spiritual revivals, they always begin when men repenting of their sin and begin taking spiritual responsibility for their homes and churches. "Courageous," is a wakeup call for the men of our culture to take responsibility for the leadership in these areas.
One big element in the movie is the resolution the men make before God, their families and one another. It is a resolution for the men to be the spiritual leaders God created them to be. I wish they gave you a copy of the resolution when they walked out of the movie. Unfortunately, they didn’t. It isn’t even found on the official “Courageous” movie web site.
I did a little research and found it for you. Men, print the PDF version off and think through it. Get together with some friends and adopt it.
THE RESOLUTION
I do solemnly resolve before God to take full responsibility for myself, my wife, and my children.
- I WILL love them, protect them, serve them, and teach them the Word of God as the spiritual leader of my home.
- I WILL be faithful to my wife, to love and honor her, and be willing to lay down my life for her as Jesus Christ did for me.
- I WILL bless my children and teach them to love God with all of their hearts, all of their minds, and all of their strength.
- I WILL train them to honor authority and live responsibly.
- I WILL confront evil, pursue justice, and love mercy.
- I WILL pray for others and treat them with kindness, respect, and compassion.
- I WILL work diligently to provide for the needs of my family.
- I WILL forgive those who have wronged me and reconcile with those I have wronged.
- I WILL learn from my mistakes, repent of my sins, and walk with integrity as a man answerable to God.
- I WILL seek to honor God, be faithful to His church, obey His Word, and do His will.
- I WILL courageously work with the strength God provides to fulfill this resolution for the rest of my life and for His glory.
As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord. – Joshua 24:15
There are many excellent ways to take a next step from the movie as God calls you to respond. The Courageous Movie Web Site has numerous resources. If you are into reading, Randy Alcorn wrote a book from the movie. I am confident it will be an excellent read.
Courageous is a “Must See” movie. I recommend it for families and children of all ages. If you are a teenager that thinks you are too cool for a Christian film, think again. This movie is one you not only will like, but one you must see.
Get a Plan to Read the Bible
November/29/2010 11:07 AM
Do you have a plan to read the Bible? God's Word is powerful and will change your life. Here are a few reading plans to get started:
My all-time favorite Bible reading plan is The Daily Bible. This is the NIV text put into chronological order so it reads like a story. It is broken into 365 sections, one for each day. It also has brief comments in the text to help explain difficult Scripture. I encourage you to order this from Amazon. You will be richly blessed.
- 30 Days of Reading the Bible for a new Christian.
- Read the Bible in a Year by Genre (Genre means literature type.)
- 180 Day Guided Tour of the Bible. This guide designed by Discipleship Journal is a great overview of the Bible in half a year.
- Reading the Old Testament and New Testament each day.
- Reading the Bible Straight Through.
- Zondervan's Collection of Different Bible Reading Plans
- ESVOnline Bible - This on-line web site lets you add your own notes, book marks and gives you a variety of ways to read through the Scriptures. If you are into reading the Bible online, this site is my favorite.
My all-time favorite Bible reading plan is The Daily Bible. This is the NIV text put into chronological order so it reads like a story. It is broken into 365 sections, one for each day. It also has brief comments in the text to help explain difficult Scripture. I encourage you to order this from Amazon. You will be richly blessed.
Motivated by Greatness - Ben Peterson
November/24/2010 01:31 PM
Ben Peterson forwarded me an article he wrote for Thanksgiving. I found it inspiring for our family and read it to my sons to encourage them in wrestling and life. Read More...
Is God Sovereign Over Death?
August/09/2010 11:19 AM
This past weekend, I preached on God’s sovereignty in the face of death and tragedy. While it is hard to comprehend how God is good, yet sovereign over the tragic deaths of those we love, the Bible tells us both are true. To help us in our thinking, below is a section of a paper I wrote in response to Open Theism, the belief that God lacks sovereignty over all situations.
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Marriage - Hold It High, Keep It Holy
March/12/2010 09:54 AM
Resources to help in the battle for sexual purity
Practical Steps for Purity and Counting the Cost of Sexual Sin.
Purity for Men
Amazon.com: The Purity Principle: God's Safeguards for Life's Dangerous Trails (LifeChange Books) (9781590521953): Randy Alcorn: Books
Amazon.com: Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is): Sexual Purity in a Lust-Saturated World (9781590525197): Joshua Harris: Books
Purity for Women
Amazon.com: And the Bride Wore White: Seven Secrets to Sexual Purity: Dannah Gresh: Books
Amazon.com: And the Bride Wore White Leader's Guide: Seven Secrets to Sexual Purity (9780802483416): Dannah Gresh: Books